I THINK WE GOT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We got so many helpful hints and advice. I liked the idea of putting her on Daddy's shoulders and then taking the picture. But, I still think she would have cried when she saw the camera/stranger. Afterall I did take her big sister MeiMei with us and when she is around Emma is the happiest! So someone sent us this great site that told how to do it.
We followed most of the advice. We really just took this picture to try it out. We pulled her in out of the sandbox. If you look really close when the picture is blown up there is sand on her chin! And she now has a little cold and that is drool and snot on her shirt. But, we are going to use this one! I am not going to mess with this project any longer.
Thank you all for your loving support and advice. I love how when there is a problem you all come through for me! Hoping to hear good news soon so I can send the picture off!